Why Do Many Bollywood Films Glamorize Stalking?

The portrayal of stalking in Bollywood films has been a controversial topic. While some directors and filmmakers have portrayed romance and relationships in a responsible and respectful manner, others have glamorized stalking and other forms of intrusive behavior, perpetuating harmful cultural norms.

Context of Bollywood and Cultural Norms

Bollywood, the largest film industry in the world, is deeply rooted in a complex web of cultural and social norms. Many filmmakers have emerged from a background where notions of gender roles and societal expectations are prominent. Notable directors such as Sanjay Leela Bansal, Rajkumar Hirani, Madhur Bhandarkar, Rakesh Roshan, Ashutosh Gowariker, and even some of Karan Johar's works (both the progressive and the regressive ones) demonstrate varying perspectives on stalking and other problematic behaviors.

It's important to note that not all Bollywood films perpetuate stalking or regressive narratives. Directors with a more progressive mindset, like Madhur Bhandarkar in films such as Lagaan and Black, and Rakesh Roshan in Muskurahana Gandhi, have created powerful and esteemed movies that do not promote such behaviors. However, some newer directors like Anwar Khan in Haider, Vikramaditya Motwane in Advaya, and Hari Mohan in Mission Kashmir have also contributed to the problem.

Roots of the Problem: Societal Expectations

Many of the roots of this issue lie in the societal expectations of women and men in India. Women are often taught to be submissive and obedient, with strict rules about how they should behave with men. For instance, young girls are often taught to avoid eye contact with boys and men, and many women are discouraged from speaking to men outside their family. In more conservative settings, women are expected to cover themselves completely, often wearing burqas, scarfs, or purdah, which further fosters a culture of self-segregation.

In this environment, relationships between men and women can be fraught with tension and insecurity. The fear of losing a girlfriend or wife through an informal relationship laced with impermanence can lead some men to act insecurely or even resort to stalking as a method to exert control and dominance. This in turn influences the narrative and portrayal of relationships in films, perpetuating harmful stereotypes and behaviors.

The Influence of Culture on Filmmakers

The influence of culture on filmmakers cannot be underestimated. Directors like Shashanka Vudra (filmmaker of Lakshya and Krish series) and Karan Johar have also been accused of promoting regressive ideals in their films. These directors, like others, sometimes strive to reflect the culture they grew up in, even if that culture is problematic. This can lead to a perpetuation of harmful cultural norms through their work.

However, it's crucial to acknowledge that not all filmmakers share these regressive views. Directors who prioritize progressive and respectful narratives, such as Aditya Chopra (filmmaker of Om Shanti Om and I) and Anurag Basu (filmmaker of Gol Maal and Parampara) have produced films that challenge societal norms and promote positive social change.

Challenging Stalking in Culture and Entertainment

It is essential for filmmakers, directors, and viewers to challenge the glorification of stalking and other regressive behaviors in their work. By fostering a more open and understanding dialogue, Bollywood can contribute to a positive shift in societal norms. Films should focus on healthy relationships, mutual respect, and the empowerment of both men and women.

Reducing the normalization of stalking in Indian films requires education, awareness, and a commitment to change from all stakeholders involved. As Bollywood continues to evolve, it is essential to prioritize responsible and respectful storytelling that promotes a society free from the confines of patriarchal and regressive cultural norms.

Conclusion

Bollywood films have the power to shape societal attitudes and behaviors, and it is crucial for filmmakers to exercise caution and responsibility in portraying relationships. By challenging the glorification of stalking and other harmful behaviors, Bollywood can work towards creating a more inclusive and respectful society for all.