What Would You Tell Your Moms Childhood Self?

Introduction

As I sit down to write to my mother, I find myself reflecting on the incredible connection we share. I'm like a younger version of her, absorbing her stories and behaviors. Though I was born in Karnataka, a state in South India, the love and traditions she shares are deeply ingrained in me, much like the Hindi culture that runs through her blood. She often impresses upon me the importance of language and culture, and I can see myself in her enthusiasm for dancing and loud music, traits that both she and my partner tease me about!

Mom’s Childhood Tales

She tells us stories of her own childhood, stories that paint a vivid picture of a young girl's life. These tales, while sometimes filled with adventure, also include moments that were less than ideal, especially from the perspective of animal welfare. At the age of 3 to 5, she found a crying puppy and, in a misguided attempt to help, dropped it into a dried-up well. At 7 to 8, she accidentally ran over a snake with her bike. These are just a few instances where a child's innocent curiosity and kindness collided with actions that, in hindsight, show a lack of understanding.

Tales of a "Weird" Child

My mother was quite the unconventional child. She was described as kind of "weird" and, indeed, during her early years, she was what we might call an "animal abuser." She would take in stray animals and try her best to help them, but often made mistakes out of innocence. This period in her life, from ages 3 to 10, was a time when she didn't know any better. Growing up in a small, close-knit town, she and her siblings were free to explore and play without much supervision. Her parents trusted this environment, knowing everyone around them and considering it a safe place.

Lessons Learnt

Each of these stories from her childhood serves as a reminder of how much we learn and grow, even when we make mistakes. As a child, she had good intentions but lacked the knowledge and understanding necessary to interact with the natural world responsibly. It's crucial to acknowledge these moments and learn from them. I’ve always tried to tell her that animal abuse is a serious issue, but she is often lost in her innocence and the context of her time. Although I try to impart this knowledge, the mindset of a child is different from that of an adult, and sometimes, the lessons we learn take a lifetime to fully understand.

A Letter to Her Childhood Self

I would like to share what I would tell my mother’s childhood self. Your actions were driven by love and curiosity, but they also had unintended consequences. Today, we have a deeper understanding of how important it is to treat animals with care and respect. You were a kind child, and your instincts were good, but knowledge and experience can guide us better. I would tell you to be gentle and patient with the creatures around you, taking the time to understand their needs and wants. At the very least, seek help and guidance from adults who can teach you the right way to care for animals.

Thank you for growing into the amazing person you are today. Even though you made some mistakes, they have made you a stronger, more compassionate individual. Keep that spirit of adventure and kindness, but remember to seek out knowledge and guidance so that you can make the world a better place for all living beings.

Love,

Your Future Self

Conclusion

These childhood memories and the lessons they carry are invaluable. They serve as a reminder that we all have the capacity to learn and grow, no matter how challenging our past experiences might be. Through guidance and understanding, we can continue to evolve and make a positive impact on the world around us.