Unconventional Ways to Express Crushes: Stories and Lessons

Introduction

Expressing a crush can be a challenging yet exciting experience, marked by a range of behaviors deemed both traditional and unconventional. In this article, we'll explore some of the most unique and memorable ways teenagers have expressed their admiration. Each story offers a valuable lesson on love, commitment, and self-awareness.

Most Weirdest Things You've Done for Your Crush?

Have you ever done something really unconventional for a crush? Some people take things to the extreme, while others try quirky methods. Here are a few stories from our readers:

Talk to Me About Blowing Off Steam

I gave this guy a blow job at a party and we were in a room with 4 other people no one knew I was bi until then and I was so embarrassed about it my family found out and it was just a disaster!

It's important to recognize the risks involved and consider the potential consequences of such actions. Navigating complex personal spaces requires respect for boundaries and consent.

Be There for Them

Gave them a new start because they were suffering them back on their feet. Genuine love…one without conditions…got him his drivers license and hook him up in a Job.

This story emphasizes the impact of support and understanding. Love often involves being there through both good and bad times, helping the other person build a better life.

Following Someone

So I have a crush on this guy but I do not know how and when to talk to him. So I followed him one day after our class just to find a chance to create 'oh we accidentally walk to the same destination' scenario and talk to him. I was not sure if he noticed me following him or not but I ended up not talking to him anyways. Just following for no reason. Thinking about it now if I were him then I’d be scared the hell out of it if there’s someone followed me. It was just weird and I did not know why I did that.

This example highlights the importance of clear communication and the potential pitfalls of covert approaches. While following someone can be a unique way to build rapport, it can also cause discomfort and anxiety. Direct communication tends to yield better results.

A Simple Yet Involuntary Expression

I didn't do something that would term as 'most weirdest'. I tried to have an eye contact and that's it.

Small gestures, such as eye contact, can be powerful. Simple actions often carry significant emotional weight and can make a profound impression on someone.

Unwavering Loyalty and Devotion

I became a gentleman—and I’m proud of that. It was the summer of 09, I passed out my class 10th, and was prep for some text in the next upcoming month and it was the first time I saw her. Pehli nazar ka haazarwa pyar. ! “Just an abbreviation” heheh but she was something: simple short hairs, remember only that much. There were many students and different batches, and so she was in the batch diagonal to my batch/classroom. Just to see her once I used to sit on the first bench never completing my homework and yelled daily.

But who cares? I knew what I was into. I lost my grandmother in a few days, I continued my classes. Then suddenly one day she was crying out of her class, my heart was shattered in pieces. I thought she might not have passed class 10th exams or less marks, but later I found her father he was no more. Soon our classes ended, and that picture of her crying face stuck in my memory.

I kinda didn’t saw her after that ever, never talked, did not know her name till now, just smiled at each other a couple of times when those classes were on but kept hearing about her and her changing boyfriends regularly. But I remain loyal to my memory, and her image—it was as sacred as a temple. I didn’t date or saw anyone till 5 years. That’s a lot crazy. I waited for her without telling her, thinking she might get that dream of mine. I didn’t have her picture either. And with time, her face got faded, and I now I don’t even remember how she looked like.!

I was even called gay by some of my cousins, but that’s ok, they didn’t know. I didn’t even eye contact with any girl in those 5 years or on the passage, or road, nothing. I go clueless if any girl proposes me, coz I didn’t have any reason why I was rejecting them.!

Hard times it was, but: I am what I am now. Then I thought of having a girl in my life who didn’t have her parents, so that I can give all I have to her only, all that is craved inside. That involuntary wish came true, and now I have a girl in my life and we are happy, we will be marrying soon as soon as I got settled with everything. : Remember us in your blessings : we really need.

This journey underscores the power of loyalty, patience, and dedication. True love often requires significant sacrifices and time. It’s a testament to the depth of feeling and commitment one can have for another.

Conclusion

These stories offer insights into the complexities of teenage crushes and the diverse ways people express their feelings. While some methods may be unconventional, they often reflect the depth and authenticity of the emotions involved. Emotional support, direct communication, and commitment are key elements in nurturing a healthy relationship.