The Spencer Family’s Enduring Role in Prince William and Harry’s Lives

Princess Diana’s untimely death in 1997 left a profound impact not only on the royal family but also on her brother, Earl Spencer, who promised to pledge his support and care for his nephews, Prince William and Prince Harry. This article delves into the Spencer family's relationship with the princes and how it has evolved over time.

Earl Spencer’s Pledge and Initial Contact

Following Princess Diana’s death, Earl Spencer played a significant role in the lives of the princes despite minimal contact during their school years and other formative stages. This article explores the extent of the Spencer family’s involvement in the lives of Prince William and Prince Harry after their mother's passing.

Princess Diana and Her Family’s Relationship
While Princess Diana had a complicated relationship with her own family, the enduring love and connection to her children remained constant. Earl Spencer, as her brother, felt the responsibility to protect his nephews from the same fate that claimed his sister's life. In his chilling eulogy, delivered at the funeral, Spencer vowed, "We will not allow them to suffer the anguish that used regularly to drive you to tearful despair."

Chilling Eulogy and Regret

Earl Spencer expressed deep regret over allowing the princes to walk behind their mother’s coffin during the funeral procession. This decision, while showing public respect, was criticized for its emotional toll on the young princes. Spencer later admitted, "I was lied to about their wanting to do it. ‘My God this is ghastly’ but then the point of thinking these two boys are doing this and it must be a million times worse for them."

Formal Involvement and Emotional Support

Prince Harry's involvement with the Spencer family goes beyond mere greetings at state events. The red-headed prince has deep connections with this side of the family, and several examples illustrate this:

1. Family Praises at Archie’s Baptism

Even the birth of Prince Harry’s son, Archie Harrison, was celebrated by including members of Princess Diana’s side of the family. A formal announcement and the baptism ceremony highlighted this involvement, showing that Spencer family members, including Lady Jane Fellowes and Lady Sarah McCorquodale, were actively participating in Prince Harry's family milestones.

2. Spencer Family Participation in Major Life Events

E News reported that Lady Sarah and Lady Jane were present when Prince Harry received his pilot wings from the Army Air Corps in 2010. This event was specially marked by the hymn "Guide Me O Thou Great Redeemer," which the Spencer aunts and uncles joined in singing during the ceremony.

3. Continuity in Major Royal Events

Spencer family members have also made appearances at significant royal events, such as the wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan and the private evening reception following the event. This continued presence underscores the deep and meaningful connection between the Spencers and the future Duke of Sussex.

Conclusion and Current Relationship

The current relationship between Prince Harry and the Spencers remains unclear in the wake of the Megxit. However, it is likely that given their strong bond and mutual respect for privacy, Prince Harry continues to maintain close ties with the Spencer family, who remain trusted, supportive, and discreet about their interactions.