The Impact of Changing Lives: One Person at a Time

Life-changing moments often come from encounters with individuals who leave an indelible mark on our lives. For me, the revelation of varying living standards began at the tender age of 11 when a classmate collapsed during class due to severe malnutrition.

From Professor to Philanthropist

Her petite and silent presence, combined with her scholarship, made her a target of our pity. Our parents took it upon themselves to contribute monthly provisions. This classmate's struggle resonated deeply within me, and as Oma, with her relentless journey to recover the wealth lost during Nazi Germany, built successful ventures in Switzerland and New York, I witnessed firsthand how one person can change the course of lives. To this day, I remember that moment vividly, and I am 43 years old now.

Every Encounter, a Lesson

Personal growth and self-awareness have come from every person who has entered my life. Not only do I learn from the wisdom of the elderly, but also from the inherent innocence of children under 8. Whether it's a child or someone in their 80s, there's always something valuable to impart. It's a matter of being open and receptive, allowing each encounter to illuminate and transform.

The Transformative Power of Motherhood

One of the most significant changes brought about by my son is the transformation of my perspective and behavior. I had to let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace new realities.

I no longer strive to be the 'super feminist' girl who considers sacrifice for family as a virtue. I eat my meal quickly to avoid my baby's attempts to snatch my plate. I take short baths because I am distracted by thoughts of my son. Patience has become a daily requirement, as dealing with a growing toddler is a significant task. I no longer mind a bad smell, as I am now deeply engaged in cleaning my son's dirt. Mothership energy keeps me going, despite my inconsistency in personal grooming.

Conclusion

Life-changing individuals often go unrecognized until they leave a lasting impact. For me, that person has been my son, and together, we have embarked on a journey of self-discovery and growth.

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