The Forever Block Debate: Should You Block Your Ex on Social Media?

As a Scorpio male, my approach to social media after a breakup is often straightforward: block my exes based on the situation. I keep my phone number open in case anything important needs to be communicated, but I also give myself time to regain emotional composure. Once I'm reigned in, I unblock them, allowing things to move forward—peacefully.

When Blocking Is a Good Choice

If your ex has decided to completely cut ties and has blocked you from their social media, it's ultimately useless for them to continue having access to your online presence. Blocking them ensures you both can move forward without the constant reminders or jealousy.

For example, if your ex has blocked you, blocking back might seem like a rational move if they unblock and message you. However, responding with “Who’s this?” and then blocking them can create an awkward and unnecessary situation. It's important to focus on your own peace of mind.

Ignoring Petty Acts and Moving On

It's also a scenario where your ex might be acting petty and using blocking as a way to get your attention—a way to provoke a reaction. If you know this behavior is likely and you feel ignoring it won't cause you undue distress, then consider not worrying too much about it. Life offline has many rewards to offer.

In this situation, it's best to carve out real-life interactions and experiences. Focus on building a meaningful existence that doesn't revolve around social media. Real life can be incredibly fulfilling, and getting to know it might just be the best move you can make after a breakup.

Balancing Your Feelings and Moving Forward

When your ex is a Scorpio like you, communication can be tricky. In my experience, I've found that having an open phone number can facilitate understanding and can give you a way to deal with important matters in a controlled, real-life setting.

Here are some key points to consider:

Decide based on the situation. Blocking is not always the best option, especially if you feel strongly about not wasting energy on petty behavior. Seek out real-life interactions and experiences that are fulfilling. The internet can be a blame game and can obscure the real value of living a life outside of online streams. If you choose to block, do so with the intention of creating a peaceful transition. Rebuilding after a breakup can be challenging, but moving forward can be liberating.

Ultimately, the decision to block or not should align with your personal well-being and your ability to move on. Remember, the internet is just one part of the complex landscape that is life, and it's essential to seek fulfillment in real-life relationships and experiences.