Retirement Joy and Everyday Fun

How much fun do you have on a given day?

When I retired, I found myself with plenty of time to enjoy life to the fullest. Since I can't quantify fun through some measurable metric, I do it by quantity of enjoyable hours, which adds up to 16 hours a day, with at least 14 being a minimum. Even though I don't track my sleep, I prefer to think of those hours as dreamy adventures filled with happiness, rather than potentially nightmarish experiences.

Always Make Time for Fun

I usually manage to allocate at least one hour of fun almost every day. Even the simplest activities can bring joy, whether it's talking to someone on the phone or simply making someone smile or laugh. While some might associate fun with elaborate adventures or extravagant evenings, I've found that the joy often lies in the little things.

Dreamy Starts and Pet Projects

My mornings are usually filled with a cup of tea or coffee, perhaps with a generous dollop of heavy cream or a touch of cocoa and cinnamon. For a surprising amount of joy, you can't beat making someone's day with just a few kind words. I also enjoy looking after my cats and plants, which provides endless enjoyment and satisfaction.

Potted Plants and Unexpected Surprises

This year brought an unexpected surprise with a potted plant that had been in my care for years. This neighborly gift was a simple green-leaved plant, but I noticed a little shoot popping up amidst the leaves. With great care, I gradually moved it outside to get it used to the elements, and it rewarded me with another sprout. It's a daily joy to watch it grow and thrive.

Simple Pleasures and Cooking Delights

In simple pleasures, I find my greatest joys. A fun evening might involve picking and preparing fresh fruits and vegetables, putting together a pie, or even stewing strawberries with rhubarb. There's nothing quite like that first bite of a fresh strawberry shortcake or a stewed fruit dessert, which can provide endless delight.

Body Care and Relaxation

My afternoons are spent with various forms of pleasure, including using an electric back massager and a TENS unit, which provides me with an exhilarating buzz. I also enjoy sipping homemade wine, which is not only delicious but also appreciated by others. Just two blocks away, the riverside offers a serene spot to watch the sunset and observe the wildlife.

A Comfortable Haven

When it all comes to an end, I return to my cozy bed, warm and comfortable with my beloved mate by my side. Every day brims with delightful moments, and the best part is that even when the fun is over, I still have the joy of tomorrow.