How Can Parents Overcome Their Fear of Watching Horror Films with Their Children?

Parents often face a dilemma when considering whether to introduce their children to the thrilling yet frightening world of horror films. While some parents might be enthusiastic about horror movies, others, like mine, might avoid them due to concerns about their children's comfort and safety. However, with the right approach, these fears can be overcome, allowing parents to share in the excitement of a horror movie with their loved ones.

Understanding the Parental Perspective

Retailer Sarah Johnson, who works in the family entertainment sector, has seen the hesitance many parents feel. 'It can be daunting for parents to navigate the potential fear factor in horror films,' she notes. 'There are valid concerns about whether these movies are appropriate for children and how to talk to them about the content afterward.'

Both my parents fall into this category, with a particularly notable example being Shaun of the Dead. While the film resonated with my dad, who found it hilarious, my mom, on the other hand, could not relate to or enjoy the film's zombie movie references. For her, the fear of horror stemmed more from a lack of interest rather than a genuine fright.

The Role of Family History

Family history and exposure play a significant role in how individuals perceive and enjoy horror films. My grandmother and uncle's involvement with EC Comics sheds light on my mother's seemingly indifferent attitude toward horror. EC Comics, known for its graphic horror and science fiction content, such as Tales From the Crypt, The Vault of Horror, and The Witches Cauldron, might have contributed to my mother's exposure to darker themes even as a young person. However, the passage of time and shifting interests could explain why she doesn't find contemporary horror as engaging.

Choosing the Right Filmmaking Approach

For parents who want to overlook their fears and introduce horror films to their children, it's crucial to start slowly. Choosing a movie that is somewhat tame is highly recommended. Classic Universal horror films, for instance, offer a gentler introduction to the genre. Movies like Dracula (1931) and The Mummy (1932) present a stylish and less gory experience that can be enjoyed together as a family. Revisiting these films can provide a nostalgic and entertaining experience for the whole household.

Another option parents can consider is the works of Hammer Films. Their adaptation of Dracula (1958) starring Peter Cushing is a classic choice. Hammer Films known for their stylish and gore-laden horror, also produced films like The Curse of Frankenstein (1957) that parents might find more suitable for a younger audience. These films often feature intelligent dialogue and impressive special effects, making them not only entertaining but also enriching.

The Role of Sci-Fi Elements

For those who might find straight horror too daunting, integrating elements of science fiction can be beneficial. Entertainment writer Emma Thompson recalls, 'My husband and I watch The X-Files together. It has a lot of horror elements but is infused with the intrigue and mystery typical of a sci-fi show. It's a great way to introduce the genre without being overly frightening.'

The X-Files, with its blend of supernatural occurrences and scientific explanations, offers a middle ground between horror and science fiction. It can be a fun and engaging experience for both parents and children. The show's blend of mystery and suspense, combined with its quirky characters, can make it a memorable viewing experience for the whole family.

After the Viewing: Discussions and Reactions

After watching a horror film with children, it's important to discuss the experience with them. This can help address any concerns and ensure that the movie remained enjoyable for everyone. Open communication about the film's content and any frightening elements can aid in a child's understanding and processing of the film.

Retailer Sarah Johnson suggests, 'Parents should talk to their children about what they saw, what scared them, and what they found funny. This can help them navigate their own feelings about the movie and also bond through the shared experience.'

Conclusion

Overcoming the fear of watching horror films with children can be a rewarding experience for many parents. By starting with gentle fare and fostering an environment of open discussion, parents can successfully introduce their children to the horror genre. Films like Universal classics, Hammer Horror, and even shows like The X-Files can be a great starting point for these family movie nights.