Navigating Emotional and Physical Abuses: Support and Legal Rights for Disabled Individuals

Living with an emotionally or physically abusive mother can be a distressing and desperate situation, especially for a disabled individual who has no financial means and is struggling to cope. This guide is aimed at providing resources and support for individuals in such a situation. It focuses on legal rights, financial benefits, and the steps one can take to seek protection and support.

Legal Rights and Protection

As an individual with disabilities, you have certain rights under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). The ADA guarantees that individuals with disabilities have equal access to opportunities and services. You and your legal guardian (if applicable) have the right to demand that your mother respects these rights, and any form of abuse can have serious legal consequences for her.

If you are being physically abused, it is essential to explore your legal options. Depending on the severity of the abuse, your mother may face criminal charges. Additionally, you can contact local authorities or organizations such as Adult Protective Services to report the abuse and receive support.

Financial Support and Benefits

Given your disability, you may be eligible for various financial benefits. Below are some programs and resources that can help:

Disability Income and Social Security Benefits

Social Security Benefits for People with Disabilities can provide financial support if you meet the eligibility criteria. You can find more information by visiting websites such as Additionally, you may qualify for Supplemental Security Income (SSI) for people with disabilities, which can provide monthly financial assistance.

Employer Assistance and Resources

Consider reaching out to the Employer Assistance and Resources Network on Disability (EARN) by calling 1.800.526.7234. They can provide guidance on employment and benefits. The National Disability Employment Advocacy Month (NDEAM) webpage at may also offer additional resources.

Explore the Office of Disability Employment Policy for potential job assistance and training programs. They can direct you to courses and resources that may help you become more self-sufficient.

Seeking Help from Others

Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or a social worker for support. They can help you navigate these challenges and guide you towards the right resources. If your mother is the primary source of your support, you might want to consider speaking to an attorney or advocate to explore your legal options more deeply.

Exploring Housing Options

If you are able to receive benefits, you may be able to move into your own place. Speak to a social worker to explore your housing options. You might be eligible for subsidized housing through local programs. Even though it may take time to get into subsidized housing, there are transitional spaces like shelter work places with shelter living that can offer temporary assistance. Each state and case must be evaluated individually to find the best solution.

Seeking Professional Help

It's crucial to seek professional help if you are feeling overwhelmed or stuck. Consider speaking to a therapist who can provide support and guidance. While your current therapist might be blaming you, it's important to find someone who can offer you the support you need. You can also look into support groups for individuals with disabilities who are navigating similar challenges.

Remember, you deserve protection and support, and there are resources and professionals ready to help you. Do not hesitate to reach out for assistance.