Lessons from 2017: The Journey to a Happy and Content Life

2017 was a year of profound transformation for me. Not only did I experience significant changes in my life, but I also learned valuable lessons that have shaped my perspective on happiness, contentment, and personal growth.

The Misconception: Things Bring Happiness

For many years, I believed that achieving certain milestones or possessions would make me happy. However, throughout 2017, I realized that it's not the things in life that make us happy. Instead, it's a happy life that attracts good fortune and opportunities effortlessly.

A New Chapter: College and Beyond

This past year marked a significant milestone in my life, as I began my college journey, which comes with its own set of challenges and emotions. Moving into this new phase of life taught me that it's crucial to be grateful for what you have and to cherish every moment. Emotions about starting college are normal, especially when it comes to leaving home; yet, it's a perfect opportunity to discover your true self and pursue your passions.

Embracing Reality and Letting Go

One of the key lessons from this year is understanding that forcing things doesn't work. No amount of wishing or hard work can make things happen as planned. If you can find peace with the losses you cannot survive, you will find strength in unexpected places. Life changes, and time can work wonders where you might be stuck. Moreover, people might not be thinking about you as much as you think they do, which can help you avoid unnecessary suffering.

The Importance of Self-Contentment

Learning to be happy with your own company is essential for a healthy life. It's not about external validation but about finding joy in your own existence. This realization became even more significant as I turned 30 this year.

Redefining Transformation

Before 2017, I believed that transformation was solely my responsibility. I thought that by sheer willpower, I could become a better, more compassionate, and loving person. However, my efforts did not yield the expected results. I felt frustrated and even questioned God's intentions. It wasn't until I realized the importance of Jesus in the process of transformation that everything began to make sense.

The lesson I learned this year is that I cannot transform myself alone. Jesus is the key ingredient that has been missing all along. It's not about me being the "secret ingredient"; rather, it's about embracing the presence of Jesus in my journey of transformation.

2017 was a year of profound realizations and growth. By understanding the transient nature of external things and the importance of inner peace, I found a path to true contentment and happiness. Moving forward, I am committed to living a life that is guided by love, kindness, and faith.