Jain Monks and Family Reunion: Possibilities and Philosophical Considerations

Can a Jain monk return to his family once he has taken the monastic vow? The answer is a resounding yes, with certain conditions and reasons. This article explores the possibilities and philosophical underpinnings of such a decision within the framework of Jainism.

Is It Possible?

The possibility of returning to family life as a Jain monk is indeed high, subject to specific circumstances. Traditionally, very few monks choose to return to their families, primarily due to health issues or other critical concerns. If a monk's health necessitates medical care, he can opt to return to a household life, provided he has a valid reason. This decision ultimately rests with the monk, who must give a reason for leaving his vows, and not with any external forces.

Philosophical Basis and Historical Precedents

According to Jain philosophy, there are no strict prohibitions against a monk returning to family life. The historical precedent of one of Mahavir's students, Guashalak, demonstrates this freedom. Guashalak left his vows later in life, and Mahavir did not condemn him but allowed him to depart. Similarly, Gautam Buddha, who initially practiced Jainism, eventually gave it up, finding it too challenging. This reflects the idea that one can choose a path that is most suitable for their karma and circumstances.

Jainism encapsulates its essence in the principle, “Ahimsa Parmo Dharma”, meaning non-violence is the highest duty. As long as a monk adheres to this principle and does not violate it, they are free to make such a life-changing decision.

Perspectives of the Jain Community

While a monk has this freedom, returning to family life is often met with social and community backlash. Members of the Jain community may view such a decision as a transgression, often ostracizing the monk. However, this social pressure does not violate the principles of Jainism, which emphasizes individual freedom and autonomy in making choices that align with one's karma and circumstances.

Rules and Regulations in Jain Monastic Life

A Jain monk undergoes a series of stages before taking the full monastic vow (Diksha). During the initial period, they stay with an experienced monk and undergo proper training to ensure they can follow the rigorous rules and regulations of a monk's life. The monk must prove their readiness and ability to adhere to the monastic code before receiving Diksha. Once a person has taken Diksha, they are bound to the rules and are not allowed to return to family life.

Jain monks have the freedom to either strictly adhere to their vows or leave the monastic life. This freedom is part of the broader Jain philosophy of individual choice and responsibility. The final decision to leave the monastic life is a deeply personal one, influenced by individual circumstances such as health, mental well-being, or other practical considerations.

Ultimately, while the Jain community may still view such a decision negatively, the principles of Jainism support the individual's right to make such a choice based on their own unique circumstances and karmic path.