Is Bajrang Dal Right in Opposing Valentine's Day?

Before diving into the debate, let me clarify a point. Bajrang Dal (BD) is fundamentally flawed at its core, and their ideology promotes a unified culture which is far from accurate and culturally insensitive.

India, often praised for its diversity, is home to a multitude of cultures and religions. Hinduism, for instance, is a religion that thrives under a multitude of interpretations and practices. It is not a monolithic entity, and attempting to enforce a single cultural standard is not only flawed but also detrimental.

Why BD’s Opposition to Valentine's Day Is Misguided

BD’s opposition to Valentine’s Day is based on a deeply rooted hatred that belongs to a different era. Living in the 21st century, such a mindset is out of place. If Bajrang Dal continues to view itself as above the law, they are misguided. The laws and societal norms that govern today’s India do not cater to organizations like BD.

The Influence of Personal Experience

Allow me to share a personal story that highlights the context of this issue.

Three years ago, I was a hopeless single teenager, always envious of couples seen in my school and in public. On a Valentine’s day, a group of senior boys recruited members for their "anti-lovers force," which eventually categorized as Bajrang Dal. Driven by teenage angst, I joined the force. On Valentine’s Day, we would scold or threaten couples whenever we saw them. After successfully dissuading them, we felt victorious. Over the years, as I matured, I formed relationships and even fell in love, but those experiences seemed to foster a deeper understanding of the impact of such forces.

Upon joining the real Bajrang Dal, I realized that many of the members were heartbroken, betrayed, or individuals who had never experienced the tender feeling of holding a woman’s hand. As I continued to reflect on my experiences, I concluded that for a man to be strong and complete, it is vital to be emotionally connected, as emphasized in Hindu scriptures. A man without a wife is incomplete, and showing affection towards a partner is acceptable as long as it is socially acceptable and not obscene.

The Nature of Bajrang Dal and Such Gangs

Bajrang Dal and similar groups may play a role in certain communities, but their actions are often rooted in backward social attitudes. These groups are plagued by jealousy and social grievances, leading them to violently target innocent individuals who do not pose any harm to society. Their methods are not only ineffective but also harmful to the cultural fabric of India.

Social Relevance and Cultural Sensitivity

The social relevance of Bajrang Dal and similar factions is questionable in today’s context. Their actions often perpetuate a backward mindset, advocating for the exclusion of certain social practices, which is counterproductive to the progressive society India aspires to be.

In conclusion, Bajrang Dal’s opposition to Valentine’s Day and similar practices not only reflects a lack of cultural sensitivity but also perpetuates a regressive and harmful mindset. It is essential for individuals and organizations to embrace the diversity and richness of India’s cultural landscape, rather than attempting to enforce a singular cultural standard.

Conclusion

India’s strength lies in its diversity, and it is crucial to respect and embrace this diversity. Attempts to impose a uniform cultural ideology are not only harmful but also go against the principles of a truly united and inclusive society.