How Are Your Previous Friends?

The question How are your previous friends? can often be a reminder of painful experiences and insecurities. Among these painful memories, the term toxic best encapsulates the relationships that once defined these friendships.

Toxic Friends: A Special Group

Friends like Friend No1 used to insult me and put me down in every possible way. She was determined to prove me wrong in any situation, believing in her own superiority, which led to my development of an inferiority complex. These actions have left a lasting impact on my self-esteem and wellbeing.

Friend No2 was relentless in her arguments, always trying to prove her points. However, she never wanted to listen to mine. Her constant ranting on very silly topics made it incredibly difficult for me to endure her company, ultimately leading to a strained relationship.

Strained and Inappropriate Relationships

Friend No3 would only reach out when he needed help or attention, but once the help was given, he would literally forget my existence. Friend No4, on the other hand, was abruptly distressed by a rumor spread about me, which resulted in the burning of a 10-year friendship.

Several friends exhibited a more inappropriate and harmful behavior. Friend No5 who would attempt to be physical with me and Friend No6s ex-boyfriend, who continuously harassed both her and me, were too much to handle. Eventually, these actions led Friend No6 to break off the friendship after a confrontation over my threat to protect her.

Friend No7 treated me unwelcomesly, acknowledging me only when it suited him. He was the epitome of convenience, and his inconsistent availability led to a crumbling relationship.

Finally, Friend No8 delved into the most damaging kind of friendship by sharing my secrets with others. When I discovered this betrayal, I broke every bond with her, cutting all communication and contact.

Lessons Learned and Moving Forward

Reflecting on these friendships, it is clear that they were toxic and ultimately detrimental to my growth and happiness. Each of these interactions has been a learning experience, teaching me to prioritize my mental and emotional health.

The term toxic serves as a reminder to be wary of these kinds of relationships and to actively seek out supportive, meaningful connections. It is crucial to recognize that true friends support and uplift each other, rather than insulting, proving wrong, sharing secrets or hurting.

Forward-looking, I remind myself that it is okay to step away from harmful and toxic relationships and to focus on building a network of supportive and meaningful friendships. Life is much easier and fulfilling when surrounded by people who love and respect you unconditionally.

Key Takeaways

Identify and being mindful of toxic friendships. Focus on building a support network that uplifts and respects you. Take initiative to move away from harmful relationships.

As the saying goes, A friend in need is a friend indeed. In this journey of self-discovery and personal growth, it is important to surround yourself with people who truly care about your wellbeing and happiness.