Expanding Our Concept of Neighbors Beyond Physical Boundaries

Understanding the concept of a neighbor goes far beyond just the physical proximity of living close to each other. Traditionally, a neighbor is defined as someone who lives in a house within view of your yard, a person who shares common boundaries or physical space. However, in today's connected world, this definition has broadened significantly, encompassing individuals who are merely online neighbors or even virtual strangers in need.

The Traditional Definition of a Neighbor

If you are talking about neighbors in the context of living in an apartment or a house—like most of us do—I explain to kids that a neighbor is a person who lives in a house you can see from your yard. As a parent, I ensure they understand the importance of maintaining respect and decorum when interacting with these neighbors, especially those who may not be as friendly or considerate.

Neighbors as Online Friends

The internet has transformed the world, making it possible for us to connect with neighbors all over the world. These online neighbors may not reside in the same geographical proximity, yet they can have a profound impact on your life. They share the same online space and may offer support, friendship, and even assistance. However, it's crucial to be cautious and to take every step cautiously when engaging with online neighbors, as you don't know who they truly are or what their intentions might be. Not everyone online is as accepting as we might be, and some may not fully recognize the boundaries or norms of online interactions.

The Expanded Definition of a Neighbor

I was raised with the understanding that a neighbor is anyone in need—financially, physically, emotionally, or otherwise. This concept extends to people who may be complete strangers, yet their situation requires you to offer assistance. The biblical verse, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” translates to, “Treat others as you would like to be treated.” These principles encourage us to be considerate and compassionate towards those in need, regardless of their proximity to us.

Conclusion

Whether we are talking about physical neighbors who live close to us or online neighbors who form part of our global community, the concept of a neighbor has evolved. It is now about extending our compassion and assistance to those in need, be they strangers or friends. By embracing this expanded definition, we can make the world a more compassionate and supportive place. Understanding and implementing this concept helps us build stronger, more connected communities, both online and offline.