Can the Ethical Influence the Unethical? A Journey in Moral Transformation

In the complex terrain of human behavior and morality, the question arises whether ethical individuals can inspire change in less ethical counterparts. Understanding this concept requires a nuanced view of ethics and morality, recognizing that these are not inherent traits but rather behavioral manifestations of goodness and compassion.

Dissecting Ethics and Morality

It is a common misconception to label someone as ethical or unethical. Ethics are not about the fundamental nature of a person but rather the behaviors and words that reflect their general goodness. Just as a drug lord might display kindness at home or a woman might commit heinous acts while being caring elsewhere, it is the actions rather than the inherent character that define ethical conduct.

The concept of goodness is further illustrated by the Bible, where Jesus was referred to as good, to which he responded that only God is good. This highlights the idea that true ethical behavior comes from a higher source, and that true morality is attributed by our actions, not by our proclaimed goodness.

Transformative Power of Goodness

While acts of goodness do not guarantee a change in behavior, they can serve as powerful catalysts for transformation. Some individuals could internalize these displays of goodness, using them as a stepping stone towards a more ethical and moral lifestyle. This transformation might occur immediately or over time.

Key Concepts in Moral Influence

To understand how ethical individuals can influence others, it is crucial to delve into the concepts of transcendent love, virtue, wisdom, and ethical systems.

Transcendent Love

Transcendent love, a gift that involves fostering the virtuous growth in the inner child-chooser of both ourselves and others, is unconditional and does not seek any return. This love frees individuals from fears, allowing for increased confidence, understanding, and skill. It encourages a non-defensive and non-angry approach, promoting inner peace and external harmony.

Virtue

Virtue encompasses a range of admirable qualities such as truthfulness, wisdom, logic, prudence, fearlessness, trustworthiness, self-restraint, absence of corruption, forgiveness, organization, cleanliness, care, principledness, wisdom, generosity, humility, and courage. These traits collectively form the backbone of ethical behavior and moral integrity.

Wisdom

Wisdom is the ability to avoid pitfalls and achieve success by applying accumulated insights and understanding of life and relationships. It helps us navigate challenges and make informed decisions, leading to better outcomes in both personal and professional spheres.

Manipulation in Morality

It is essential to understand that unethical behavior, while abrasive and negative, can be manipulated for various purposes, such as scapegoating. Scapegoating is a common psychological tactic where individuals or groups are unfairly blamed for negative outcomes to deflect attention from those truly responsible. In contrast, ethical behavior should be a genuine desire to do good and promote moral integrity.

Parenting as a Path to Ethical Growth

The role of a parent in fostering ethical behavior is fundamental. It begins with the upbringing of a child and culminates in the cultivation of a capable, ethical individual. The integration of ethical teachings and moral values into daily life and behavior from a young age is crucial for the development of a strong moral compass.

Note: For a comprehensive explanation of ethical systems and their differentiation from juristic systems, I recommend reading my book, "Assholes, Bullshit: A Language Problem."

In conclusion, the ethical have the power to inspire and influence the unethical towards a path of goodness and moral transformation. While not guaranteed, the transformative effects of ethical behavior, manifested through transcendent love, virtue, and wisdom, offer a hopeful outlook on the evolution of human morality.