Anakin Skywalker: A Love Beyond Possessiveness and Sexism

Many believe that Anakin Skywalker exhibits possessiveness towards Padme Amidala and displays sexist tendencies. However, a closer examination of their relationship reveals a more complex and caring individual who could be better understood as someone with underdeveloped social skills and a deep concern for the well-being of those he loves.

Underdeveloped Social Skills and Extensive Power

The notion of Anakin being too possessive or sexist stems from a narrow interpretation of his actions. In reality, his possessiveness stems from a place of deep uncertainty and desire to ensure the safety and happiness of those around him. His extensive power and unique circumstances didn’t allow him the same privileges and experiences as his peers, leading to an underdeveloped awareness of social norms and expectations.

Complicated and Scared

It's important to recognize that Anakin is not possessive or harmful in the way that might be perceived at first glance. He is, in fact, deeply concerned and scared. In the context of their secret relationship, more problems naturally arise, leading to heightened anxiety and protective behavior.

The Star Wars: Episode III - Revenge of the Sith novel provides insight into Anakin's state of mind:

“It was a dream,” he said finally. She accepted this was a slow, serious nod. “Bad” “It was—like the ones I used to have” (His) mother died … They didn’t happen that often, but even so, without warning, each time a horrid terror had welled up in his heart and his blood had run cold. And each time, he had pinned his intuition to the Force, which had supported his guess each time, that this dream would not become real.”

These prophetic and terrifying dreams are a reflection of Anakin's deep fear and loss. Given his history, it is not surprising that he would be overprotective, especially of Padme. He is deeply devoted to her and wants her to live a life free from the pain and struggles he has endured.

Protective and Caring

When Anakin has a nightmare that feels like a premonition, he becomes paranoid about the safety of Padme. This is a natural reaction to the trauma of his past and the deep connection he has with Padme. In the Star Wars: Episode III - Revenge of the Sith novel, he kneels beside her and promises that such a nightmare will not come true:

“It won't happen, Padme,” he said, his voice shaking. “I won't let it. I could have saved my mother—a day earlier, an hour—I…' He bit down on his rising pain inside him and spoke through clenched teeth. 'This dream will not become real.”

Anakin’s actions are driven by a genuine desire to protect his loved ones. He is willing to leave the Jedi Order if it means ensuring Padme’s safety, as demonstrated in his statement:

“I don’t want to stay in the Order!” “Don’t protect me. I don’t need it. We have to start thinking right now about how we can protect you. Because all I want is for us to be together.”

These words showcase Anakin’s selflessness and intense desire to protect and support Padme, not just himself. His focus is on ensuring her well-being, which is a sign of deep love and concern.

Understanding and Sympathy

Anakin's love for Padme is multifaceted. He sees her not as a possessive character but as someone who is deeply committed to her well-being. This can be further seen in their conversations, like the one in the Revenge of the Sith novel, where Padme expresses concern about Anakin not worrying, to which Anakin replies:

“No buts. No worries. You worry too much as it is.” “I have to,” she said smiling through the tears in her eyes. “Because you never worry at all.”

This dialogue reveals that it is Padme who is the more worried of the two. Anakin is the one who brings a sense of peace and assurance to their relationship. It is not possessiveness but genuine love that motivates his actions.

In Conclusion

Anakin Skywalker is a character often misunderstood by his actions. His perceived possessiveness and potential sexist tendencies are rooted in a place of deep love and concern. By exploring his relationship with Padme, we can see a man who is determined to protect and support those he loves, challenging the common misconceptions about him.